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The Murfreesboro Art League has several members who will be participating in the Greenway Arts Festival in Murfreesboro this Sat.  As far as I know, Carol Berning, Carole Carroll, Mark Jackson, Heloise Shilstat, and Suzanne LeBeau will be showing their art.  If there are others, let me know and I'll get the word out.  Come on out and support the arts! http://wgnsradio.com/news.php?viewStory=3285

It's all in your choices.  You can look at different situations as a set-back or a step up in your growth as a person.